Confusion

Have you ever had someone get upset with you, so upset you cried, and you spend the next twenty-four hours racking your brain, trying to figure out exactly what it was you did wrong? If you have to try that hard, to go through your emails and IMs, your (attempts at) conversations, with that person, as well as to gain support from your close friends regarding the situation because you are too insecure to have enough faith that you acted as any normal person would, maybe by then it is time to realize that perhaps you have done everything right- everything except making yourself appear guilty to the other person.